Tips Jan 29, 2022 18:12

When I thought, “Enough already with the ‘low self-esteem’ talk,” I saw that the questioner was in their 60s. Why are people in their 60s so mean-spirited? (lol)

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There are also 60-somethings who know their place and enjoy themselves tastefully (?) like Mac, Makeo, and Kazu, as well as beautiful, alluring women in their 50s like Marika, and smart, beautiful women in their 20s like Aya, but... I’ve been involved with about 20,000 men since I was a teenager through dating clubs and the nightlife industry, and the old men in their 60s are by far the most unpleasant and difficult to deal with. Many of them also lack basic cleanliness and consideration. Why is that????
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It’s really rude to get someone’s age wrong in writing. I was shocked by the attitude of assuming that working in the nightlife industry means you know everything about men.
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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Looks like that little jab hit harder than expected... I’m sure I’m not the only one—every other respondent must be sitting there with their mouths hanging open in surprise too... Thinking, “No way.” And look at the number of likes... Readers of this Q&A site really do notice every little detail... I’m starting to feel terribly sorry about all this, but that isn’t my goal, so I’ll keep answering questions to achieve my true objective. Not that it matters, but I’m so bad at reading kanji that I can’t figure out what this one says. I wonder how it’s pronounced...
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Just to clarify, I’m around fifty, but I’m still in my 40s. Sorry my sample size is so limited, but all the papas in their 60s I’ve met have been wonderful. It’s true that none of them are attention-seekers—they’re all the kind of men people naturally admire and gather around. My best papa, the wonderful gentleman, and the sexy, funny papa are all in their 60s. Marika
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I felt the same way—“Ugh, how annoying”—so I didn’t respond. They probably aren’t mean-spirited; they’re lonely. They want attention, but they don’t know how to engage appropriately, so it comes across as obnoxious. They’re lonely and want someone to pay attention to them, but because they lack the ability to do that properly, all they can manage is annoying interaction. If you interpret it that way, ignoring them seems like the safest solution. I’m flattered by your kind words, but while Mack and Marika are both intelligent and good-natured people I’m happy to be friends with, I find it somewhat objectionable to be lumped together with that ill-natured cockroach trap. I imagine they would also be unhappy to be lumped together with someone so stingy that he only pays an allowance of five, under the pretense of “knowing their place and having a clean(ish) arrangement.” Please reconsider that point.
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
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So the denominator is 20,000, is it? In that case, why don’t you start by sharing your own thoughts? Joe doesn’t have much experience dealing with men in their 60s, so I can’t say I know what traits are typical of that age group. That said, I’ll be turning 60 myself before long, so I’ve been reflecting on my own behavior. If I’m being honest, I don’t think I have a particularly good personality. I have a feeling I’ll become the kind of old man you’re describing, but I suppose that’s just how it is—I probably won’t be able to change. Are you asking this question here despite having a sample size of 20,000 because your brain is starting to droop?
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