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Jan 26, 2022 20:57
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In my generation, most people—both men and women—think it’s perfectly normal to have had work done. Even back in high school, a few people in every class had something done. So it’s normal.
Men at the club seem put off when I mention that I’ve had work done. What do they think of people who get plastic surgery?
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
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I imagine that, to you as the questioner—who I assume is fairly young—even an older man saying “I don’t really think anything of it” would count as having “no immunity.”
That said, I do wonder whether having that “immunity” is really a good thing. In the broad sense, the beauty industry is essentially controlled by older men and women, who seem to spend most of their time trying to give young people “immunity” to them.
And in a community of roughly a five-meter radius, I’d probably feel like making a sarcastic remark or two: “Are you speaking for all young people now?” What a handful old guys can be. Though I say that without actually being bothered by it.
My daughter had a little cosmetic work done. She only told me afterward. I got the impression she probably wasn’t feeling too great about it. However, she says that since having it done, people have been telling her, “You look just like your dad,” much more often. Is that something she should be happy about? lol
I answered the question with a question of my own.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m sorry, but I find it off-putting that everyone seems to be aiming for the same look.
It’s not that I’m unaccustomed to it—it’s simply a matter of personal taste.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I don’t have anything against cosmetic surgery or anything. It just bothers me when people treat maintenance-level procedures like some kind of quiz. Honestly, if I genuinely like someone as a person, I’m fine with anything.
That said, I’m honestly a little scared of people who think they can get attention—or money—based on their looks alone.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’ve seen plenty. To meet my current monthly arrangement partner, I reached out to dozens of people and met all kinds of women.
I understand wanting to look more beautiful. But there are women who were already attractive enough, and looked better naturally, yet had cosmetic surgery during the relationship and ended up looking unnatural. It feels like such a shame.
Once someone starts to look too artificial, I lose interest, so I’d prefer it if they kept any cosmetic work subtle and natural.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Maybe it’s because even after getting plastic surgery, she looks almost the same as she did before, so there’s no noticeable change...
I also know a woman who’s had plastic surgery, but she looks almost exactly the same as she did before. If that’s the case, I feel like there’s no point in spending a huge amount of money on surgery.
I think that if you’re going to have plastic surgery anyway, you might as well go all the way and become incredibly beautiful—like a completely different person.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
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I don’t think anything of it. If you want to do it, go ahead. Wanting to look beautiful is only natural, and I know that, regardless of what men think, what matters most to women is being satisfied with the person they see in the mirror.
That’s why I pay for their procedures.
I know all the going rates—how much it costs to change each feature—and I know several highly regarded board-certified plastic surgeons: “For eyes, see this doctor; for the nose, that doctor; for bone shaving, this one.”
Age: Private
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I realize it may be self-satisfaction, and I believe people should be free to do what they want with their own bodies.
That’s why it annoys me when I’m pressured to prove my stance on something I’m not interested in. It feels like being suddenly asked which political party I support.