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Jan 25, 2022 21:39
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I’m certain I caught chlamydia through papa-katsu, and I can’t think of any possible source other than oral sex. I’m too scared to get tested for HIV/AIDS, but there’s a very real possibility that anyone could be infected. In the past, a doctor from the club was also insisting on bareback sex, but when I said, “I’m worried about STIs and pregnancy (though I’m actually on the pill), so condoms are absolutely mandatory,” he replied, “You don’t have an STI, do you, ○○-chan?”
I’m 20 and attend a prestigious university, so I suppose he just assumed that I was a serious, respectable college girl based on appearances. Are these men really that stupid? I’ve had roughly enough sex partners to fill a classroom, yet so many idiots who know nothing about that automatically assume I’m an innocent girl. It honestly makes me wonder whether they’ve really lived for 40 or 50 years.
Or do they figure that they only have another 20 or 30 years left to live anyway, so there’s no point in being afraid of STIs?
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
“Someone like you wouldn’t have an STI, right?”
I think men who insist on having unprotected sex tend to strongly believe this. They assume it’s safer than going to a sex-service establishment.
But before looking down on other people, isn’t it simply common sense to properly treat any STIs you have before taking part in this kind of activity?
First, get your genital warts treated. And make sure you get an HIV test as well.
If, after that, you still want to say that men who ask for unprotected sex are idiots, I can understand that, though…
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Please keep calling them out. There seem to be a lot of papas with a poor attitude.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’m scared too.
I’m not willing to take any risks, so I always use condoms through the dating club.
I’m worried about you too.
綾瀬なな
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Other
I’m Nana Ayase☆
Why wouldn’t you look up the one thing you absolutely need to know…? Chlamydia clears up right away after taking just one dose of medication.
You should’ve told the man, “I have AIDS—let’s do it without protection.”