I’m Dai, a male member.
Only Type A members can say that they have absolutely no intention of pursuing an adult relationship with a man.
Also, the allowance referred to as transportation expenses is guaranteed only for the first date.
From the second date onward, the terms are decided through discussion between both parties. Even if you don’t receive the promised allowance, your only option is to end things with that man.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer as well.
> 1. I’d like to choose Dating Type A. Is there a chance things could become intimate?
In the case of Universe, we arrange the first meeting, and after that, it’s up to the two people and their relationship.
So unless you want it, things won’t become intimate.
That said, just as in ordinary dating, the man may ask for intimacy.
If you can tell him, “I chose Dating Type A, so I’m not considering that,” then I think you should be fine.
> 2. Will I always receive the allowance directly?
For the first date, the man is required to give the woman ¥5,000–¥10,000 after the meal. It’s a rule.
Since it’s a rule, if he doesn’t follow it, first tell him, “I was told I would receive the allowance.” If he still doesn’t pay, contact the club. The club will tell him that he has violated the rules and make sure you receive it.
However, from the second date onward, it becomes a matter between the two of you. You need to confirm during the first date how much you’ll receive for future dates. The amount is decided through discussion.
You also need to determine whether he seems likely to keep his promises. That said, I think most women contact the club if a man doesn’t keep his word, so he’ll receive a warning, and repeated violations may result in being forced to leave the club.
One thing to note: if you haven’t clearly discussed how much you’ll receive from the second date onward, then even if you don’t receive an allowance, the man hasn’t technically broken a promise, so the club can’t do anything.
First and foremost, it’s important to discuss the terms of the arrangement clearly.
By the way, the reason you choose Dating Type A is important.
If your reason is that you want to be paid for dinner only, you’ll be rejected at the interview unless you have looks on par with a celebrity.
Men don’t want to keep making offers to women who will only ever have dinner with them.
On the other hand, if you choose Type A because you don’t consider intimacy unless you’ve become close with someone, men may think, “If we become close, there could be a possibility,” and decide to get to know you. You may receive fewer offers, but you should still receive some.
The interview standards are higher for Type A, but in this case, I think there’s still a possibility.
If you take it a step further and mean that you can decide by the third date whether intimacy is possible, then I recommend Dating Type B.
The interview standards aren’t higher for Type B, so one advantage is that it’s easier to pass.
However, you’ll need to make a decision by around the third date, so it can’t remain dinner only. If you’re thinking, “But if he’s genuinely a good person…” then Type B may be the better choice.
Also, please be careful about choosing Type B until you receive an offer and then trying to switch to Type A afterward. That would result in a complaint, and if it’s considered Dating Type fraud, you could potentially be forced to leave the club.
I’m Nana Ayase☆
You’re definitely Type A.
Whether or not you pursue an adult relationship (intimate) is entirely up to you.
I receive my allowance directly. However, some people may accidentally forget, so if you haven’t received it by the time you part ways, just remind them about the allowance.
