If someone I’m seeing invites me out while I’m on my period—or on a day when I expect to get it—what impression would it give if I told him honestly?
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Would it be okay for me to suggest an alternative, such as dinner only (no intimacy)?
I’d also like to hear from women:
How do you usually respond in this situation?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I think it’s pretty common to simply say something like, “I’m probably going to get my period that day.”
If anything, rescheduling tends to come up more often than suggesting an alternative.
I had assumed that an alternative usually meant the man still wanted to meet and would say something like, “Would you be willing to meet just for dinner?”
But since it can be difficult for the woman too, I feel like alternative arrangements themselves don’t come up that often.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
What will probably go over best with your papa is:
1. Tell him about your period yourself and suggest another date that’s not too far away.
2. If he says he’d still like to see you even if it’s just for dinner, meet him.
Whether or not to ask about the terms for dinner depends on how close you are to him, so use your own judgment.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Unless she’s gone through menopause, not getting her period would be unusual, so it doesn’t leave any particular impression on me.
I think the alternative proposal is a good idea, but I’d also like her to state what she expects in terms of the allowance.
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