I have an interview with your club coming up soon.
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Should I play up a sweet, wholesome image and make it seem like I’m struggling financially?
I’m embarrassed to admit that I like men, and I enjoy being spoiled by men about a decade older than me. Since I haven’t been able to meet anyone like that, I’m considering signing up.
My image of a PJ is someone with long brown hair wearing a pastel-colored maxi dress… But I have a blonde bob, usually wear black-and-white outfits, and only wear miniskirts, so I may not fit what people are looking for…
I’m wondering whether I should play a role rather than risk getting no offers at all, but ideally, I’d like to genuinely become close with someone.
Should I pretend to be the wholesome, refined type?
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
The type of PJ most popular in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is someone with:
- Black hair
- A light-colored dress
- A refined, honest-looking appearance
Personally, I prefer an ordinary office lady who isn’t struggling financially but would simply like some extra spending money.
I couldn’t take a blonde girl in a black-and-white outfit to a nice restaurant with the right atmosphere.
If you’re in your 20s and looking for someone around 12 years older, she’d be in her 30s—so rather than papa-katsu, why not look on a dating app?
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I’m Ayase Nana ☆
First of all, black hair seems to be the most popular.
As for makeup, it’s probably best to avoid eyeshadow that heavily surrounds your eyes. Think about it: would you expect to see someone with dyed hair at a luxury hotel dinner? Or someone dressed in Gothic Lolita fashion? They’d seem more suited to a cheap, run-down love hotel, wouldn’t they?
Also, many of the men are in their 40s to 60s.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
With your current look, wealthy business owners won’t be interested in you. First, go back to your natural black hair. Your clothes don’t necessarily have to be pastel-colored, but I think simple outfits in beige or white would be best.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you’re in your twenties and hoping to be spoiled by a man about twelve years older through an exclusive dating club, I think that’s pretty difficult to achieve.
It seems like you may be looking in the wrong place.
Also, I don’t think brown hair is particularly well-received.
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