My papa (a male supporter) asked to meet and asked where we should eat. I said I’d look for a place and send him some options, and he agreed—but after I sent a few, he left me on read. Why?
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The allowance is under ¥10,000.
He’s a papa who messages me every day without fail.
Did he dislike feeling like I was asking him to make requests? What would have been the right thing to do? How do you all decide where to eat?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I think it also depends on how many days have passed since you sent it.
Maybe he’s been busy and hasn’t had time to look up the restaurant, so it’s just been left unanswered. Or perhaps the location was outside the area he had in mind, or even though it was under ¥10,000, it was over his budget.
It seems like something about it may be bothering him.
If he’s ignoring the dinner plans but messaging you about other things on LINE, he may simply be fine with the restaurant you suggested and just hasn’t replied.
It’s also possible he doesn’t intend to make a reservation and assumes you can just go there.
If this is someone you message every day, I think it would be fine to ask him about it.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
What kind of places had you been going to before? If the places you took her to were pretty different in style or price range, she may have felt a little thrown off.
You could try feeling her out with something like, “Oh, was it a little different from what you imagined? lol”
Communication after things don’t go as planned is really important. Try to bridge that space between yes and no. You can always cut things off later, so there’s no need to be short-tempered.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not really sure what to make of it. If she was unhappy, I wish she’d just said so.
Maybe she accepted the invitation but then wasn’t in the mood, or something came up and she got busy.
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