I’m a married housewife in my 40s with children. I’m hooked on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and it’s escalating. I originally had an older man who was like a papa (a male supporter) in a mutual affair, and now I have three other papas, but I still find myself trying to start conversations with even more men on the site.

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I feel a sense of urgency because of my age, and since I’ve met some wonderful people, I can’t help wanting to meet all kinds of other men too. I’ve always liked older men, I enjoy sex, and I can also enjoy a pseudo-romantic relationship, so I haven’t had any trouble at all. (If anything, the only difficult parts are finding the energy and coordinating my schedule.) Other than work and the bare minimum of housework and childcare, all I can think about is papa-katsu. I don’t currently have any particular hobby I can really immerse myself in. I have a vague fear that if I continue like this, I’ll eventually suffer some serious consequences. How can I control these urges? Alternatively, if you have any stories about being seriously hurt through papa-katsu or an affair, I’d like to hear them.

Answer 1

I’m Nana Ayase☆ Questioner, they say people tend to want romance when they have too much free time. Why not work so much that you don’t even have time to think about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or anything like that? You’re only thinking this way because you have time on your hands from not working and lazing around at home. Also, you should quit using those apps. I was stalked once, and it was terrifying. I thought I was going to die. Why not find a couple of papas (male supporters) and meet them repeatedly instead? You could catch an STD. Think carefully.

Answer 2

Physical stamina and scheduling, lol I laughed because I’m in pretty much the same situation. I also have a lot of hobbies and a fairly demanding job, so in a way, it balances out. Since this isn’t the only thing that keeps me busy, I think it works out fine. There’s only so many people I can meet if I’m physically short on time, so once my schedule is full, I consider that my limit. I suppose I’ve kept going because I haven’t had any truly terrible experiences either. Marika

Answer 3

I don’t see anything wrong with either single women or married women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). It’s all about taking responsibility for your own choices. That said, I don’t get involved with married women. I had a serious situation blow up once and nearly got myself killed.

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