I don’t mind exchanging about one LINE message a day—in fact, when I like a papa (a male supporter), I want to stay connected even when we can’t meet—but he keeps his messages very simple.
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There’s hardly any small talk, just a word or two. Rather than replies that keep the conversation going, most of our exchanges are strictly necessary communication.
At first, I worried and felt confused, wondering if he didn’t really like me, but when we’re together, we’re very affectionate.
Should I tone down my replies to match his level of enthusiasm? (Right now, I’m the only one who’s a little more enthusiastic, haha.)
Also, if there’s a gap of one or two weeks before we can meet, should I avoid sending casual LINE messages during that time unless there’s a reason to? He’d probably only reply with a word or two anyway… haha.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Since we started seeing each other, we’ve generally exchanged one round of messages a day. It’s always nice to hear from her, though.
I think two or three exchanges a day is fine, as long as it doesn’t become excessive.
Also, I don’t think the ups and downs in enthusiasm matter that much.
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I’m a male member who tends to get the short end of the stick.
It’s pretty rare for a woman to actually want to message her papa a lot. In a good way, you’re a rare breed.
If you’re not constantly repeating things like “I want to see you” and are just making casual conversation, it’s not a burden for the person reading it, so I think you’re fine as you are.
I reply to messages lightning-fast, whether they’re work-related or personal, but it’s genuinely rare for me to contact women first. I always think they probably wouldn’t be happy to hear from some old guy, so I can’t bring myself to message them.
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆
Was I the only one who thought it was because the man was busy?
I’m in a pretty good position myself right now, but I’m busy too. Anyone who can type long messages on LINE must have a lot of free time, right?
He’s busy, you know.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
One of my papas is also pretty old-school—he has a smartphone, but doesn’t even use LINE—so his messages are very short.
Things like “Got it” or “Thanks, I look forward to it” by text.
I usually reply with fairly upbeat messages. I think you’re fine as you are, too.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer too.
I think the best thing is probably not to change your current pace.
It’s best to keep doing things the way you have been.
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