What goes through the minds of married older men who seriously fall for you?
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I especially get the impression that a lot of men in their 50s and 60s genuinely fall for their partners. Maybe their children have grown up and left home, and they want some excitement in their otherwise boring lives with their sexless wives? lol
They tell me they don't want me to get married, don't want me to get a boyfriend, and want to stay together forever even when I'm old. It's so creepy. So fake lol. I wish they'd come up with more believable lies.
When I told him I'd get a boyfriend because I absolutely didn't want to be alone for the rest of my life, he was right next to me and started sulking and saying, "Then we shouldn't see each other anymore," before going to bed in a huff.
He expects me to be careful too so his wife won't find out, I have to accommodate all of his preferences, and if he doesn't get the reply he wants on LINE, he sulks and plays mind games. It's such a hassle. In the end, he just wants a woman who's convenient for him, right?
But I only recently joined the club, so I want to increase the number of monthly arrangements a little more and stabilize my income before ending things with him.
At what point do you think someone has genuinely fallen for you?
Are there any ways to deal with these types of people without letting them become a hassle?
Why do they genuinely fall for someone when they already have a wife? What does their wife represent to these men?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, with an answer as well.
You may find men like that difficult to deal with, but if you can learn to get along with them, your monthly allowance could potentially exceed ¥1 million. So I think it would be worth trying to figure out how to interact with them successfully.
Of course, it would be easier if you could be with men who aren’t a hassle. But as you yourself mentioned, I think it’s probably difficult to increase the number of monthly arrangements right now.
> The person inside the Mickey Mouse costume at Disney…
The incident in 2008 when Mickey fell into the water during an event is well known. Apparently, he absolutely wasn’t allowed to take off the costume, and I thought it was incredible how determined he was to keep swimming for his life, even as he was nearly drowning.
Incidentally, when a reporter later asked,
“Was the person inside who nearly drowned okay?”
they supposedly replied:
“The person inside? Mickey is Mickey. There’s no person inside.”
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I’m a losing player among the male members.
I’m honestly so jealous of the older guys who can genuinely fall in love...
I joined the club hoping to fall seriously in love, but then I realized I couldn’t even develop feelings for my “ace,” so I completely changed course. Now I’m working toward becoming a papa (a male supporter) who is as convenient for women as possible.
It’s genuinely difficult to get money out of men like me who don’t fall seriously in love. The only reason my ace has been able to get so much money from me is that, besides being on an entirely different level as a woman, she puts an incredible amount of effort into me.
Since you happened to land a papa who’s genuinely in love with you, I think you should control him skillfully and milk him for all he’s worth.
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It goes without saying that you should keep it from your wife. Likewise, you’re obviously supposed to meet other papas and your boyfriend without letting your genuinely lovestruck older men find out.
If you can’t think things through or show any consideration, then complain about these lovestruck older men, papa-katsu isn’t going to work out for you.
I’m happily living with three genuinely lovestruck older men while being genuinely in love with them. I also have people in my life who aren’t in love with me.
Your question is so ridiculous that I don’t even feel like answering it—especially the latter half.
Marika
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I think a wife you’ve been with for a long time eventually becomes like air—you can’t imagine life without her, but men still go out hunting.
That said, when I had a wife, I wasn’t playing around outside the marriage…
If you want a lot of allowance, then ultimately, I think you need a papa who’s genuinely in love with you.
People like me, who keep things at arm’s length and just enjoy themselves, aren’t easy to win over, lol.
By the time you’re ready to stabilize your income and cut ties with a genuinely lovestruck married papa, I think you’ll be the one getting cut off by another man. That’s the kind of world this is.
Things don’t go your way that easily.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I actually like papas who get genuinely infatuated with me. They treat me well, and since they have wives, it usually never turns into true love or ends in divorce anyway.
People tend to spend a lot of money on someone they’re on the verge of seriously falling for, which can be quite thrilling—and apparently, even after the relationship ends, it becomes a good memory.
If you’re already attracting a papa who’s genuinely falling for you, you clearly have what it takes. It would be such a waste to let that gold mine slip away.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
That’s right—I want someone who fits my needs. You also joined a dating club because you wanted someone who would be convenient for you, didn’t you?
If you understand that it works both ways, it might feel less frustrating. Things don’t always go exactly the way we want in life.
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