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Jan 8, 2022 01:17
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🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I would never go snooping through a PJ’s phone, but my absolute favorite’s phone was left out carelessly just now, and I happened to see that she had tons of unread LINE messages. I’m quietly crying inside.
It scared me, so I looked away after two seconds.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Out of the 11 women I have monthly arrangements with, three seem not to have any other papas. That’s only based on how it seems, though.
I feel like women who want to have sex without protection are more likely not to have any other papas. Two of those three women have asked for that.
Unprotected sex is seriously scary. It basically means they can have you finish inside, and if a child is conceived, it’s all over. There’s also the possibility of passing on an STI that I didn’t even know I had...
On the other hand, getting tested for STIs more than twice a month isn’t realistic, so I guess the only option is to reduce the number of women I’m seeing.
Maybe I should end things with all the women who seem likely to have other papas...
—Loser Guy
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
- You need to coordinate schedules.
- She doesn’t reply to your suggested dates right away (within 10–20 minutes).
- She’s only available on one of the dates you suggest.
- If several days pass—or it’s right before or on the day of the meeting—she’s already booked with other plans.
- Her eye contact and way of speaking are too perfect.
- She stands there watching you leave.
- She sends a thank-you LINE message immediately every single time.
There are other signs too, such as being able to discuss the allowance.
—Paper Airplane
But if you make it so she gradually becomes tired of meeting other papas, I think the options will naturally narrow down.
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
For me, it basically comes down to how smoothly we can coordinate our schedules. Even if she has other papas or a boyfriend, you can usually tell from that whether she’s making you a priority.
Girls who can’t quickly suggest some available dates or who frequently reschedule often prioritize dates with their other papas or boyfriend, then try to fit in their second-choice papa or friends wherever there’s a gap.
Of course, there are exceptions, but I think it can be a useful rule of thumb.
太郎
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Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
When I get the feeling she’s seeing another papa…
- She usually replies right away when I message her between 7 and 10 p.m., but on that particular day, I don’t hear back until the next morning.
- She takes just a little too long to reply when we’re arranging our next meeting.
- We always met Saturday nights because she has an early-morning job and can only meet on weekends, but suddenly she says she wants to meet Sunday afternoon.
- She says, “I already told you about that…” even though I’m absolutely sure I’ve never heard the story before.
- She says, “I was taken there for client entertainment the other day,” but the place is clearly the kind of date spot a papa would choose.
- When I suggest trying a kinky little activity for the first time and she reacts, “Ehh, again? lol”
- I made her an offer soon after she registered, thinking we’d agreed on a low allowance, but after we’ve met a few times, she says, “You could give me more, you know.”
That’s when I think she’s seeing another papa.
And honestly, I think it’s fine if she is. That’s what a dating club is for, right? lol
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you just chat casually without putting any pressure on her, she’ll tell you.