Can people who keep their rooms dirty really not change? I have a papa I’m starting to dislike because his place is so filthy. If he doesn’t have time, he should just hire a cleaning service. I feel like being there is attracting bad energy into my life too. I want to tell him that his work isn’t going well because of his room.

Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this as well. > I cleaned it, but it’s beyond my ability to manage, and he looks displeased. If he makes an unpleasant face, I assume he doesn’t want you cleaning. If that’s the case, the problem isn’t the cleaning—it’s the man himself. Saying you’ve come to dislike him because his room is dirty seems like a clear reason, and I think he would find it easier to accept. However, if you’re not considering breaking up, perhaps you could start meeting at hotels instead. The issue is meeting at his place, so I think you should ask him to meet at hotels from now on rather than at home. If he says that paying for a room is a waste, then perhaps the relationship wasn’t worth much to begin with, and it would be fine to part ways.

I’m Dai, a male member. If he reacts negatively, he probably doesn’t want to change. It’s difficult to fix something when the person doesn’t want to change it. For your own peace of mind, I think it would be best to tell him you’d like to meet at a hotel rather than at his place.

I’m Taro, a male member. If you like her, I think you should also consider accepting her as she is. She gives you a dirty look when you clean, so she’s clearly doing it deliberately. Even if you do anything, it should probably be limited to a quick spray of something like Shoshuriki or Febreze. Maybe your standards are simply too high. I’ve never gone into someone else’s room and thought, “I want to take a deep breath in here,” after all.... Either way, I feel that meeting each other halfway is more important than trying to train her.