I’m Dai, a male member.
I tend to get bored easily, so I think I’d quickly lose interest if the relationship were based solely on physical chemistry.
Since I’m aware of that, I have a monthly arrangement with every woman I see.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
> Is there any way to keep someone from getting bored with you?
I don’t think people get bored very easily with someone they genuinely enjoy spending time with.
Maybe it’s because they’re on the same wavelength—the conversation is fun, or their mannerisms are charming. When you feel that way about someone, I don’t think you get bored of them easily.
If there’s a chance of getting bored, it’s probably in a relationship where you just meet up and get intimate, and the intimacy itself is nothing special.
With that in mind, I suppose the best way to avoid someone getting bored with you is to become someone they enjoy talking to.
In other words, I think it comes down to becoming more appealing as a person.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
My monthly arrangements tend to last a long time without getting boring.
Maybe that’s because I don’t enter a monthly arrangement until I find someone I’m truly happy with.
The downside is that it’s tough when a monthly arrangement comes to an end. I have to make offers over and over and find someone new again.
I’m not sure whether this will help you put things off, but occasionally adding a little variety—different activities, places for an adult relationship, lingerie, and so on—and tailoring things to your partner’s preferences may make them happy and help the arrangement last longer.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Far from getting bored, I think most people don’t get bored at all. If you assume that getting bored is inevitable, perhaps you’re keeping things at a certain distance in your relationships.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think relationships tend to last when you’re compatible as people. A relationship based only on physical intimacy gets boring pretty quickly.
I’m not exactly blessed in the looks department, but my relationships with my papas often last a long time. Eventually, things sometimes stop being physical, and I’ve had a few papas where we’d stay overnight but hardly do anything.
With the papa I’ve been with the longest, we’re just incredibly compatible emotionally and physically, and neither of us can seem to stay away from the other. We’re simply too comfortable together.
For reference, I see this papa two or three times a month. Sometimes I wonder if that’s just the right amount of distance for us.
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