Isn’t papa-katsu basically full of men who weren’t popular back when they had no money as students?
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I’ve met 30 or 40 of them through Uni, and not a single one was popular in school. Some even say they want to relive their youth, which I find hilarious. A man in his 50s trying to have a青春 with a 20-year-old is a bit much. Don’t they ever think about doing it with someone their own age? That would be more realistic, wouldn’t it? Why do they think they can relive their youth with women 20, 30, or even 40 years younger than them?
The first papa (a male supporter) must have been extremely popular.
And the fact that Japanese men were popular in America 40 years ago is pretty amazing, too.
Of the papas I’ve met, I’d say there are about three who seem like they must have been popular when they were younger.
Even those who weren’t particularly popular are all married.
For men in their 50s and older, there are probably very few women around their age registered on these sites to begin with. Some may also have reached menopause and no longer want sex.
And in terms of what feels realistic, I think younger women may simply be more sexually exciting to them as potential partners.
People who have always been popular might actually prefer a calmer relationship with women in their late 30s or older.
That’s just speculation, though.
Marika
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I think you should just laugh it off, questioner.
With that attitude, your papas will drift away, and things will get tough for you someday.
Well, God gave Fuu a face like this, so I’ve lived a life of being unpopular. The one thing I’m grateful to God for is making me a man. At my age, I’m making up for it with money. There’s a world of difference between being able to make up for things and not being able to.
It’s okay—don’t worry. I’m not expecting anything from questioners who just want to trash-talk me.
But this system exists because it works in real life.
You understand that the girls who understand papas and can make them dream are the ones who come out ahead and receive plenty of allowance, right? It’s supply and demand. Marketing.
Since there are so few girls who understand, the papas focus on the ones who do.
If you don’t want to benefit, then feel free to keep criticizing me.
Fuu isn’t misunderstanding anything, either. I don’t need genuine love.
Ah, what a shame. You could do so well if you handled things right. It’s such a waste of your youth and cute looks.
The girls who know how to play the game are seriously impressive. What a waste, what a waste.
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
Looking back on the men I’ve met since I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I feel like about two out of ten were the kind of guys who must have been popular since their school days.
But I had the same impression when I worked at a Ginza club, so maybe around 20% of men out there were naturally popular, while the other 80% weren’t.
As for my papa (a male supporter), he’d apparently been extremely popular since his school days, cheated as much as he pleased and made women cry, and had tried pretty much everything with hostesses and cabaret club girls. Then he registered with a dating club, thinking he might as well try dating an ordinary woman for a change—and ended up getting caught by a plain girl like me.
He tells me, “I never thought I’d end up this completely wrapped around someone’s finger,” so I reply, “It’s nice for a change, isn’t it?”
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It’s Joe.
The sample size should probably be a bit larger—at least 100—to make it more convincing, but speaking for Joe, he’s just a typical older guy. It’s not only during his school days that he wasn’t popular, either.
That said, I don’t want to relive my youth even one bit. Once was more than enough. Never again.
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I’m a male member—a total loser.
I’ve always been this hopeless, unpopular guy, both in the past and now. I’m really sorry for being so undesirable m(_ _)m
Anyway, the way your question is written really shows how smart you are—or rather, how high your academic ability must be—and I absolutely love it ♡
I’m super smart too (the exact opposite), so I feel like we have a similar vibe♪
Seriously, what was I thinking, offering to meet a woman 30 years younger than me? What was going through my head?
Taro.
Taro.
So cute ♡
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