I’m relieved to know that a man’s appearance isn’t the only criterion for being chosen.
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I’m the female member who asked a question previously.
Thank you for your answer here:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/10387
For my first date, I wore reasonably nice lingerie, but…
When he invited me to take a shower, I was just too embarrassed (I somehow felt like I was being sleazy), so I held the dress I had taken off in front of my body, turned bright red, and made a pathetic spectacle of myself saying, “Please don’t look too much.” lol
(I told him to go ahead to the shower first, but he watched me intently until I had taken everything off.)
Do you eventually get used to it…?
I have an average amount of experience with men, but my embarrassment and my desire to act sexy get all mixed together, and I end up feeling as though an erotic side of myself is something I shouldn’t show.
Ladies, do you feel comfortable letting a man see you in your favorite lingerie from the very first meeting?
Once I’m wrapped in a bath towel, I can steel myself, but…
Actually, since my previous question, I’ve fortunately received offers from several men.
I thought my profile photo might look a little plain, but I’m happy that something about it seems to have resonated with them or sparked their interest—not just my facial features.
And tomorrow, I have my first date with a man who sent me an offer.
I thought he seemed wonderful, so I’m getting nervous again…
I’d appreciate everyone’s advice.
Sorry for the long post.
Isn’t that perfect?
I think you’re fine just the way you are. A little modesty is the best.
I have a woman in a monthly arrangement who has a world-class sexy body, but when she takes a shower, she’ll strip completely naked in front of me without the slightest hesitation, disappear into the shower with a smile, and sometimes come back out still naked.
It honestly doesn’t make me that happy.
I can’t help thinking how much better it would be if she showed a little modesty with a body like that—but there’s no way I can say that.
—A defeated man
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That’s lovely—please stay just the way you are.
It’s something a mature woman like me couldn’t pull off, even if I were only acting.
Even once a relationship has continued and you’ve gotten fairly comfortable with each other, a little modesty is still important.
Marika
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
It sounds like you didn’t need to have the photos retaken after all. I wonder if the retaken photos will simply be kept in reserve for a while, but most importantly, it’s great that you received multiple offers.
> When I was invited to take a shower, I felt too embarrassed no matter what.
I think many men find women like that refreshing and endearing because of their innocence. If you’re also trying to give off a sexy vibe, gradually becoming a little more confident and sexy each time you meet could be a good thing too.
That said, I imagine you’ll eventually get used to it and be able to take a shower normally. But that doesn’t mean you’ll lose your appeal as a person, so I think you’re fine just the way you are.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
That’s wonderful! Absolutely wonderful!! (snorting excitedly)
That shyness of yours…
I’m jealous of your papa.
I’m sure he’s absolutely delighted.
Your innocence is just irresistible.
I’d love to date someone like you.
I’m sure your wonderful papa will be happy with you just the way you are.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’m glad you received an offer!
I’d feel embarrassed in that situation too—or rather, my breasts are small to begin with, so I’d feel shy showing them either in lingerie or naked… I wish I could confidently show them off, though.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
You don’t need to be experienced. Plenty of men are looking for someone like you who gets shy, just like the person asking this question.
Even once you get used to it, please keep being shy.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I agree with Joe. “Please don’t look too much” really gets me. And if the tag on her underwear isn’t folded out and showing, that’s a perfect 100.
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Joe here.
I have nothing to add—100 out of 100. The part about your embarrassment being mixed with the desire to act sexy especially gets double marks! At least for Joe, it doesn’t get any sexier than that. Last time, your shyness ultimately won out, but next time, try leaning just a little more toward the sexy side. Don’t push yourself, though, and don’t worry. For most papas, seeing you turn bright red and say, “Please don’t look,” is probably a real turn-on. I’m serious! As proof, your papa never looked away, did he?
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