Tips Dec 24, 2021 11:31

I wish men could be screened for more than just their financial situation, including their sense of ethics, before being allowed to join.

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I’m being treated like an object, and it’s making me want to quit. By the way, how can you tell whether someone has a strong sense of ethics?
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綾瀬なな
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ There are some truly awful people out there, but there are also some really wonderful ones. If you wait a little longer for offers, I’m sure someone great will come along for you too.
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. Take the bottle and can recycling bins at convenience stores. It’s obvious that they end up in the same trash bag anyway, with the only difference being the opening—but people still put bottles through the bottle slot and cans through the can slot. That’s probably the kind of thing you’re talking about.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist. Everyone has different ways of thinking, so I can’t judge. Isn’t the basic idea to date people who are a good match for you, and turn them down if you’re not interested? If there’s no one who’s a good match, it might be better for your sake to leave the service. Just as there’s no way to completely exclude women who see their papa (a male supporter) as nothing more than an ATM.
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
That’s also because the balance between men and women plays a part. Become a good person, and good things happen, bringing good people together. That’s how I’d like things to be. Paper Airplane
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Everyone has different standards and criteria when it comes to judging ethics, and you can’t determine someone’s character from a brief interview. It’s not ethical, as a Q&A, to disguise an opinion as a question by tacking on some contrived wording. It’s also possible that someone treats the staff differently from the women, or that their views change based on their experiences after joining. To begin with, allowance-based dating itself can’t exactly be called ethical. If the person who asked the question was offended, they should accept the transportation fee, write an unfavorable review, and submit it. These days, men like that can receive a warning and eventually be removed from the club after accumulating enough negative feedback.
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I’m Aya, a female member. Having an affair with a married man or being in a mistress relationship is a separate issue from being “treated like an object.” I don’t recall ever being treated that way by a papa, so what exactly happened? If you could tell us more, we might be able to say whether it was “That’s absolutely awful” or “Maybe you’re overthinking it.”
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