Which feels easier to you: working a food-service job for 10 hours at ¥1,000 an hour to earn ¥10,000, or having dinner with a papa for 3–4 hours to earn ¥10,000?
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I find working my part-time job easier.
I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because I don’t have much time. Even compared with having dinner with a papa I genuinely enjoy spending time with, work is more fun. Time passes more quickly at my part-time job.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
You chose to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) yourself, so whining about how the other option would be easier or whatever is pretty pathetic.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’d never compared “working a 10-hour food-service shift for ¥1,000 an hour” with “spending three or four hours having dinner with a papa and receiving ¥10,000.” But when I think about it, both sound exhausting.
It depends on the person, but as long as you think of papa-katsu as chatting with an older man for money, like a part-time job, I feel it can really wear you down emotionally.
You might be thinking, “Then what are we supposed to do?” But I think it really comes down to whether you’re suited to it. Some people are well-suited to papa-katsu, while others simply make a little pocket money at the expense of their physical and mental well-being.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s tiring for men, too, to have a meal with a woman who doesn’t have much to talk about.
Meeting for dinner only (no intimacy) with a woman who shares your interests sounds enjoyable, though.
Women get tired too after entertaining someone for three or four hours.
But if you want to earn money in a short amount of time, you’ll just have to put in the effort.
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I’m in Seattle.
Spending four hours just having dinner might not be all that easy.
In my case, I ask for 10,000 yen for an hour and a half of dinner-only (no intimacy). But lately, I’ve been getting tired of all the dinner-only arrangements, so I’ve been politely turning them down. It’s more enjoyable with my monthly arrangement partner of several years.
I’m starting to find it a hassle to go out. Maybe I’m getting old.
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