I think the questioner’s view is correct.
No matter how much they try to rationalize it, a papa (a male supporter) who can only give a woman a small allowance is a bad papa.
I mean, if he has money in his wallet, he could simply give it to her. I wonder why he chooses not to. I feel the same way.
If a papa has no money, that can’t be helped. But if he has money, he should give it. If he can’t, then either he actually doesn’t have any money or he’s just stingy.
That said, I don’t think a high allowance alone is enough to show sincerity. Paying a high allowance should be a given. On top of that, he should make the best preparations and provide the best possible date, until she finds herself thinking:
“This old geezer gives me a high allowance and even provides such fun dates. He’s short, fat, bald, ugly, and his breath smells like shit, but if he’s willing to go this far, I suppose I can forgive him♪”
That’s a papa’s job. After all, he’s being provided with a young woman’s body, so that much is only natural, right?
—Loser Guy
As your wife, even without an allowance, she gets a home, land, a car, clothes, trips, and so on—not to mention potentially inheriting assets worth hundreds of millions of yen.
So it’s more than enough; in the end, I think she’d come out overwhelmingly on top… even before it ever came to inheritance.
If that’s what she wants, I’d want to stay together and wouldn’t get divorced.
You only learn your true compatibility after getting married, so I think having something that lasts longer than papa-katsu is truly valuable.
P.S.
Over the years, several women have asked me to marry them, and I’ve been married or engaged many times. But after all that, I finally ended up with my current wife—and she really is wonderful…
There are still women waiting in line to marry me, though I doubt that will ever happen now. Still, you never know what life has in store…
—Paper Airplane
