Tips Dec 14, 2021 13:58

Looking at past questions, I get the impression that when people don’t see their dating partner for a certain period, they sometimes end up losing touch. To prevent that, do you all keep in regular contact even when you can’t meet? Or would it be annoying if someone who had basically only contacted you to arrange dates suddenly started messaging you for no particular reason? Until now, I’ve avoided unnecessary messages so I wouldn’t bother her.

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Since it’s the end of the year, both she and I are busy and our schedules don’t line up, so it looks like the next time we’ll be able to meet will be about a month from now. We already last met a month ago, so we’ll end up going two months without seeing each other. We don’t normally keep in touch day to day, so I’m starting to worry a little that she might forget about me or gradually fade out of contact.
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This is Ayase Nana ☆ If it were me, I’d block and delete him after a month without hearing from him. I like keeping things neat and organized, so if I see a ① or ③ on my iPhone screen, I’m the type who wants to check it and deal with it right away… If you haven’t really been messaging much up until now, I think it’s fine to leave things as they are. How about sending him something through PayPay for Christmas? Then send him a “Happy New Year~ (๑´ω`ノノ゙ clap clap clap ✧” around New Year’s.
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I’m in Seattle. I’m happy to send some kind of payment over and over—even if it’s only a small amount—to someone who keeps me company by text when I’m bored. Just sending messages alone isn’t enough.
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I’m Aya, a female member. It really depends on how well you click with the other person. Some women have a habit of regularly resetting their relationships and may suddenly disappear even while you’re in touch, while others may only contact you occasionally but continue for a year or two. As long as she likes you, I don’t think she’ll cut you off.
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