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Dec 14, 2021 11:38
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Whether it’s through a club or an app, it seems that many men try to negotiate for sex without a condom.
If you’re worried that you might not be able to finish because of your age, then you simply don’t have to finish.
My stance is 100% condom use, and if I can’t finish, that’s perfectly fine too.
綾瀬なな
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Other
I’m Nana Ayase ☆
So many guys try to have unprotected sex.
I guess my old profile made it sound like I was looking for one-night stands without protection, so I’ve toned it down now.
But I really want to fall genuinely in love with someone… (tears)
What does your profile say? Be careful about how you word it.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Doing anything without consent is out of the question. However, you’re likely to run into bad luck fairly often, so it’s important to be able to say no.
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Column writer: Flag Maker
I’ve always been firmly in the “condoms always” camp and pretty hard on the bareback crowd. But recently, a senior member of the bareback camp said something like, “I used to be able to finish with a condom too. But as you get older, you just can’t finish with one anymore…”
So now I’m a moderate within the condom camp.
Apparently, there really are cases where you can no longer finish with a condom as you age.
あや
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
That’s awful. A man who does something like that from the very first meeting won’t last long. He’s probably doing the same thing to other girls too, and it shows a real lack of hygiene and basic grooming. I don’t know whether this has been happening more often lately, but I definitely don’t think it’s the majority.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering as well.
People have all kinds of perspectives, but some men may think that because they have money, they should be able to do things their way.
That’s why some men will act that way regardless of manners or the setting.
That said, you don’t have to put up with anything that makes you uncomfortable.
I think it’s best to discuss the terms of the arrangement clearly. They should understand that their own common sense may not be universal, and it’s important to have an open conversation.
By the way, an exchange like:
“Please use protection.”
“Okay.”
can also be dangerous.
They may think that having sex without protection and pulling out counts as contraception.
Please don’t just assume, “That’s how it’s normally done.” Make sure you discuss it clearly.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it was simply a case of bad luck.