Have you ever had a papa-katsu arrangement last a long time with a woman whose looks weren’t your type at all, but whose background was interesting?

Question

My papas usually only make offers to Platinum or Black women, but every now and then they’ll offer a Gold or Standard woman because they find her background interesting. When I asked whether they ever meet these women multiple times, they said that they’re usually satisfied after hearing her story at the first meeting and don’t see her again, or they meet a second time, have an adult relationship (intimate) once, and then end things. It doesn’t seem like any of these arrangements last very long. Since it’s a relationship between a man and a woman, and allowance is involved as well, I figured that unless he likes her looks, it probably won’t last long—at least that seems to be the case with my papas. Are there any women whose looks were completely not their type, but whose interesting personalities made the arrangement continue?

Answer 1

I’m Kazu, a male member. I’ve continued seeing a Black woman whose looks aren’t really my type because we get along well. The more we meet, the less her appearance bothers me, and I’ve come to like her. On the other hand, the women I’ve offered to meet because I wanted to talk with them haven’t worked out long-term—even when they were Standard members with looks that were somewhat in line with my preferences. When it comes to whether things continue, I don’t think being physically attracted to someone’s appearance is all that important.

Answer 2

I’m in Seattle. The nursing student I’ve been close with for nine years isn’t really my type. She’s hilarious, like a solo comedian, so I go see her long-distance about once every six months.

Answer 3

To begin with, it sounds like looks are the most important factor for your papa (a male supporter). I’m registered with my face blurred, so the men who make offers to me clearly aren’t prioritizing looks above all else. Rather than a beautiful but boring woman, I feel most men would prefer a long-term arrangement with someone who’s average-looking but fun to be around. Marika

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