Thank you for your response. It seems my feelings were right after all.
I’m scared that suddenly cutting this papa off might make him resent me or cause other problems.
Since we’re supposed to meet tonight, I’m thinking of telling him directly that what he said the other day made me sad and hurt me, and then gradually stop seeing him.
Would it be a good idea to tell him directly?
Or should I just meet him as usual today and then explain everything by message afterward…?
I felt bad about canceling at the last minute on a day we had already made plans, so I’ll meet him properly today…
I’m Aya, a female member.
> Since we’re supposed to meet tonight, I’m thinking of telling him directly that what he said the other day hurt me, and then gradually stopping seeing him.
I think that sounds fine.
If you come on too strongly, there’s a risk he may hold a grudge. So when you’re saying goodbye tonight, maybe say something cute like, “You say things like that sometimes, don’t you? They really hit me hard, and I often end up dwelling on them the next day and beyond♡” Then I think it would be best to fade out gradually.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since I don’t know what the atmosphere or the person is like, I can’t suggest one method that’s guaranteed to work. Generally speaking, though, I think the safest way to end things is not to make plans for another meeting and simply let contact fade away.
Even if you tell them that what they said the other day was hurtful and made you sad, the only real benefit for you would be the possibility of getting an apology from them. I wouldn’t say anything.
As you said, canceling at the last minute isn’t a good thing to do.
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