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Dec 8, 2021 14:50
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Among the women I know, several have continued even after paying off their debts, despite not having financial difficulties, and are still doing it after turning 30.
Do the papas (male supporters) here end things when the woman has paid off her student loans or saved enough for studying abroad?
Do they get bored after it continues for a long time and move on to someone else, or do they continue out of affection…
I’ve asked so many questions, but I’d appreciate hearing your thoughts.
3 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
At first, many women join to pay off student loans or cover their living expenses.
Occasionally, there are also women who aren’t motivated by money and are simply curious.
Those who continue even after their financial problems are resolved are probably just enjoying the relationships.
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I might be a little unusual because I didn’t have any student loans or other debt, and I already had plenty of savings when I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I was also approached by a scout, and curiosity played a part.
That’s why my relationships with my papas are about more than just money. They give me career advice, we invest together, and so on, so we’ve developed fairly deep relationships. I don’t know when they’ll end, but I feel like they’ll continue for quite a while.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think many people do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because they’re truly desperate. When you urgently need cash, I don’t think papa-katsu is particularly well suited for that.
Every man probably has his own criteria for choosing a partner, but I think only a small minority would end things simply because the woman had finished repaying her student loans or saved enough for studying abroad, as you mentioned.
Whether he gets bored after a long time or develops stronger feelings depends not only on the man’s personality, but also on the woman’s character and the nature of their relationship. That said, I feel that boredom tends to set in before things continue for very long—perhaps within a few months.