Both of my papas asked, “How about lunch?” on Christmas Day, December 25th, and the plans overlap.

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I’ve already told them I have plans in the evening because I’ll genuinely be spending it with my family. The papa I made plans with later offers a better allowance and is much less stressful to be around than the one I arranged to meet first. I think this may also be the first time we have an adult relationship (intimate) on that day. I know some people would say I should honor the plans I made first, but how can I gently turn down the first papa...? Even if I say I have work, I feel like he’ll be suspicious. The first papa always wants to see me and is a little arrogant... The papa I made plans with later is usually away on business and only comes back to Tokyo occasionally.

Answer 1

I’m Dai, a male member. If you haven’t entered into an adult relationship (intimate) yet, it may be risky to dismiss your first papa. In the end, you won’t know whether you’re physically compatible until you’ve been intimate… “I’m spending Christmas with my family” is probably one of the most common excuses for turning someone down.

Answer 2

I’m Aya, a female member. That’s a tricky one. As an excuse, you could say, “Three of my single girlfriends invited me to lunch… If I turn them down, they might think I’ve gotten a boyfriend.” Hope it works out for you.

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