If I mention traditionally masculine hobbies in my profile, which impression would be stronger…?
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【He’ll offer because we have similar interests!】
【It must be another man’s influence—how suspicious!】
I’m a pj who enjoys watching sports because of my father’s influence, and I go to games in person about once a month. But I’ve been too worried about the above to include it in my profile 😭
I’d love to hear your thoughts, for reference!
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t put much weight on the hobbies women list on their profiles.
I occasionally make an offer based on one, but when we meet and I hear them talk about it, many women say things like, “I’m only somewhat interested,” or “I’m thinking of taking it up.”
So these days, I just assume they’re providing conversation starters.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Why not just write it normally? Women who enjoy watching sports aren’t exactly rare. They may not be the majority, but I know several myself.
What makes me more cautious are profiles that say things like “My hobby is beauty.” You can’t picture them getting excited over a topic they share with a man at all. All you can smell is money, money, money.
On the other hand, when someone writes “listening to music,” I’ll privately think, “What is this, a marriage agency?”—but I also get the faint impression that she might be a simple, down-to-earth person.
Then you meet her and ask what kind of music she likes, only to find out it’s punk rock… possible, I suppose.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
How about simply writing something like, “I’ve loved [sport] since I was [age], because of my father”? I don’t think anyone would find that suspicious.
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