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I have a papa (a male supporter) I’m very compatible with, but I’m getting bored because the flow of sex with him is exactly the same every time.

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I’d like to enjoy trying different positions once in a while. But since he isn’t around my age and is elderly, I find myself wondering whether there are things that are easier or harder for him to do. If that’s the reason, I wouldn’t mind straddling his face. I just want some kind of stimulation. Would telling him that hurt his pride? I’d be happy if I could avoid bringing it up, but… does anyone have any advice?
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well. Being compatible but getting completely bored sounds contradictory, so I can’t help wondering whether you’re actually not that compatible. Or perhaps you mean that the shapes of the凸 and凹 fit together, making things feel just right? In other words, are you talking about physical compatibility? If you want to try different positions, I think it’s fine to simply say so. You might have trouble reaching the finish in some positions, but there’s no point worrying about that too much. That said, even if you ask for the ekiben position, it may be difficult for a papa who doesn’t normally work out. If you rule out anything that’s physically too demanding, I don’t think you need to worry about much else.
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Isn’t true compatibility about being able to enjoy the flow together in various positions? There’s no need for the man to be the one who has to do something. You have to observe your partner and figure out what they enjoy and what they dislike. No one here can know what your partner is like if you’re only asking on this site. Marika
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I’m Fuu, a columnist. That sounds great! I’m jealous. I’ve been feeling things out and trying things little by little, so I’m happy when the woman takes the initiative. Why not try things gradually? Watch how she reacts and, for example: - While giving her oral, guide things toward 69 by saying, “Lick me too.” - Before going in, hold hands and lead her to the sofa or in front of a mirror, then say, “Let’s do it here,” and try it standing from behind. - Say, “I’m going to take the lead today,” then kiss and lick her nipples… - Oral, followed by cowgirl, and so on. I’d love to have someone do that to me.
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This is Nana Ayase☆ For questions like that, you’ll get a better answer if you ask your partner directly (▭-▭)✧ Try saying, “I’d like to try something like this today—is that okay?”
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I’m Dai, a male member. I think it depends on the kind of man you’re seeing. I’m the type who wants us both to enjoy ourselves, so I actually find it fun when the woman takes the initiative. Make sure you carefully figure out what kind of man you’re seeing before deciding how to act.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Every man thinks differently, so I don’t think there’s one right answer. Personally, I welcome women who take the initiative.
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