I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I remember everyone, including those who turned down my offers. Offer rejections can happen because of the age gap, and you shouldn’t expect too much in terms of looks. So I suppose it can’t be helped… though I do feel disappointed.
If we had met, they might have thought, “He wasn’t quite bad enough to turn down,” but…
The woman I liked most at the dating club was the one who told me, “I’m fine with an adult relationship (intimate).” (笑) That was when I had achieved the purpose of joining the club.
Until then, I’d experienced all sorts of things—from having offers turned down to situations where, after a bath, one of us headed to bed while the other put on their underwear and got ready to leave. (笑)
I believe dating clubs involve both parties agreeing to see each other in exchange for a generous allowance, so I don’t think calling it “disposable” is appropriate.
I think it’s simply the result of deciding that continuing the relationship with such a generous allowance was no longer appropriate.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
They’re not disposable, but women I’ve only had dinner with once don’t really leave much of an impression.
I’m not doing this to fall in love with women, so I’ve never developed feelings like that.
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This question is from a woman, right?
I think she’s asking whether she’s being treated as disposable. The important thing is to recognize people who would treat you that way and not move on to an adult relationship (intimate) with them.
Or, if you realize it later, stop meeting them yourself.
It’s better not to dwell too much on whether you’re being treated as disposable.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I only vaguely remember the number of women I’ve met. If I see their club names in my history, I can remember their faces and what we talked about.
Can you really rank people you like? There are women I’m fond of, and I’m still seeing them.
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