Tips Aug 29, 2021 14:20

I had a filling meal and dessert before my 3 p.m. date, but now I see that his profile says to come hungry. The meeting place is a hotel, so it would look bad to say I’ve already eaten on our first date, right?

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I’m BB7. I’d think, “Ah, so you didn’t really read it properly,” but if he followed up afterward and sincerely apologized, I wouldn’t mind. If you’d already made a dinner reservation, it would be a hassle, but any man who got angry over that is pretty narrow-minded. You’re probably better off passing on him.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Was the wrong option selected? Most good restaurants aren’t open at that hour. I wonder if they mean room service?? Unless they’re planning to go looking for a famous soba or eel restaurant that stays open all day…#+#+#+#+
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You probably don’t even remember choosing the wording, “Please come hungry.” Wouldn’t that be better than ending up saying, “I arrived at 3 p.m. starving because I hadn’t eaten lunch, and they didn’t even let me have anything to eat”? Marika
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here. You mean this is your first date, right? In that case, contacting the man directly would violate the rules. Usually, if the woman says, “I didn’t know,” it ends with a warning. But if she says something like, “What’s wrong with it? I was in a hurry, so it couldn’t be helped,” she may be forcibly removed from the club. I’d suggest quickly messaging the staff on LINE with something like: “I’m scheduled to go on a date with Mr. XX today at 3:00, but I just noticed the message saying to come hungry. Unfortunately, I already had lunch. Could you let him know?” Since it’s so last-minute, there’s a chance the staff may not notice the message, so you might want to call them as well. The man may be a little inconvenienced, but he might also see you as a bit adorably clumsy, which could actually work in your favor. Of course, you should also apologize profusely as soon as you meet him.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m not entirely sure, but if the date starts at 3 p.m., I think it’s normal to have already eaten. You could simply get ahead of it by saying, “I didn’t notice until after lunch that your profile said to come hungry! I’m sorry!”
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